financial roots: your fiscal beliefs, fears, confidence must come from … where?

In preparing for another financial planner interview this week, I imagined how a certain discussion could play-out regarding our debt:

Planner to me: So do you have credit card debt?

Me: Sure do.

Planner: So why don’t you pay it off right now or at least increase your payments?

Me: Because the thought of having zero dinero in our emergency reserves makes me vomit.

For my family right now, it comes down to rebuilding habit.

For a while, it’s been ‘pay off the card’. Then a perceived emergency that warrants use of it occurs again (we wouldn’t have much in emergency reserves since we focused on debt pay-off).

And the cycle played out many times in our lives.

So I shared this tact with husband Sean – to which he concurred on changing focus. He was creeped-out by the card balance (predominantly tax payments) but appreciated the underlying philosophy: build up cash reserves to prevent credit card usage in emergencies.

Then comes the self-reflection:
What has the most impact on one’s financial beliefs? Is it more than just live-and-learn as an adult?

That must be a complex answer for everyone.

Yet these two childhood memories stand out as canyon-wide influences on my financial beliefs:

  • family thrived with their business during the Oklahoma oil boom;
  • family sank deep into fiscal ick-ville when that boom went bust

Don’t wanna go back there … ever.

So what’s the first step – forming a positive vision to strive toward (vs always looking back at that which we want to avoid)?

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